Giving a blow job means taking your partner's penis into you mouth and satisfying him sexually in that way. There are several things to keep in mind to make giving blow jobs as pleasurable and as safe as possible. The most sensitive place of the penis is the head or glans , and the lower edge of that the corona is the best part to stimulate, for example with your lips or tongue. The frenulum , which connects the foreskin to the glans, also has a lot of nerve endings, which makes it another sensitive area.
First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice. Everybody wins! It sounds intimidating, but the payoff is worth it.
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Lack of oral sex came alongside a general lack of commitment to my sexual pleasure, unless it was easy and complemented what he wanted to do anyway. When it came to oral sex he would recoil as if disgusted I guess I just thought there was something wrong with my vagina. Skip navigation! Story from Sex.